I hung up the phone, utterly bewildered . How to feel...angry? Sad? indifferent? clearly this occasion didn't mean anything to him. I decided to call him back and just say it. I did , he stated of course he remembered , a tall lie of course. What would you like to do?
What would I like to do? I couldn't help but scoff , I've been reminding him of this since December, and asking to make solid plans. Nothing ever came of it.
So what did I do on that day? He took me for a haircut, then we went to the grocery, and the mall. The end.
Basically errands. I decided and I told him , no more celebrations of anniversaries.
I always get disappointed
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That does sound disappointing. But some people are like that: they just aren't that concerned about anniversaries. So as long as the relationship seems to be good in the present, I wouldn't be to upset about it. Perhaps it's wise to stop celebrating them if you can (to avoid disappointment if you can) or else t decide that you'll do the planning rather than requiring him to come up with something.
Ive decided to take the reins and plan something, no matter how small it is :)
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